opposite sex attraction

Lately, it is pretty hard for me to find an interesting topic to share to you guys. Not because I am lacking of ideas, but I am afraid that topic just simply won't attract your attention. It made me wondered then, How to be attractive? (especially to attract the girls or guys that you like in particular, haha)

When I'm talking about this, it does not mean I am an expert or whatever you call it. Let me get this clear: I NEVER DATED SOMEONE, so this is not based on my personal experience. But rather, this is somewhat a summary from what i read or heard about the art of seducing your opposite sex and how to tell that they interested in you. For guys, this is a common thing. But girls? Please don't lie girls. I know you wondered as much as guys do. How to attract your opposite sex for the very first move and without saying a word.

Research found out that making eye contact is a powerful weapon! seriously, not just to attract the one you like, but apparently everyone! For guys, this is a very scoring first step. Most guys went wrong here, there's no way you can attract girls just by staring at her breast or legs :( but a quick glimpse may do hahaha!

Secondly,  throwing smiles is a sure way to get the chemistry going. Remember! One smile means more than a thousand word. Not necessarily tell him or her that you are interested, but apparently, make them curious about you. They will try to figure out what's behind that smile and. Monalisa smile is a good one. Each person comes up with each different interpretation, some says she was hiding the sadness behind the smile but the others say its just an empty smile. BE MYSTERIOUS (what my friend said! you know who you are haha)

For guys: And How to Tell That She's Interested ..

You'll know immediately if a girl's interested. She'll look straight back, then turn away, and perhaps smile. If she looked you in a steely glare it's probably not going to happen. It's the turning away that tells you that something is going on.

There are other signs you should look for too. If she plays with her hair or jewellery , adjusts her clothing or breathes in (to show you how slim she is!), that might mean something. They say that she's interested in your approach, and she's trying to look her best for you. Body language tells it all!

In a more extreme way, just try to do a facebook/twitter stalk on her. Girl will suddenly become lovecentric and often post love-related note or status when they feel like giving signal to you :( Sad, i never have one. hahaha

For girls: and How to Tell that He's interested

Guys, I know this sounds like a betrayal, but let me share our dirty little secret. A guy would be looking at you by any chance, and always put effort in his appereance whenever he is around you.

In any chance, he will try to have conversation and just having time together with you. But girls, I know you have some sort of natural knowledge, called INTUITION. Your intuition is much stronger than guys. You can feel the vibe and tell immediately if a guy is interested to you.

TOO BAD I never had my own personal experience. But I promise myself, SOON, i repeat, VERY SOON, I will write down my own personal experience and tips as well as showing the world how awesome my girlfriend is. I promise! =)